I have a question regarding bj without condom. In the most movies the condom gets put on after the bj so isn't it dangerous in terms of deseases let's say if I am coming while a girl blows me?
Thanks for the advice

 

anytime you exchange bodily fluids there is risk of disease... Now to take the this further, unless she swallowed your cum and you have a disease it's probably not to bad..that is unless she has open cuts or sores in her mouth then yes she'd still run the risk of disease. I honestly don't know about getting something from her.. I don't think the risk is too bad unless she had herpes or something, then, yeah you're screwed on that deal.

 

I think unless one of you has an open cut it wont be a problem.

 

If you are worried about anything being transmitted then a condom is always a good idea.

 

i've never heard of a blow job with a condum...

 

Yea, bj with a condom seems weird to me, but I don't like condoms at all, so that's just me. But even my friends who use condoms don't use them for blowjobs. But don't be fooled, diseases can be spread if you don't use a condom. But, diseases can be spread if you use a condom as well.

 

lamo! i totally just noticed i spelt condom wrong, lmao!

 

haha, i hate condoms too, i assumed you were making a statement about them... condum :mrgreen: awesome

 

regarding to HIV, blow jobs without condoms are considered low risk (not no risk) if you have no open sores and you don't get cum in your mouth. Other STDs are transmitted more easily, so ideally you should use a condom.

 

nah, just a misspell, i'm not in the mood to be that witty tonight but if thats what you thought, maybe i shouldn't have said anything...

 

Some diseases are difficult to transmit via oral sex, but the following ones CAN be transmitted, even without visible symptoms:

Herpes (Simplex type 1 & 2 can infect many areas of the body. Although having one strain may affect where or how easily you can get another strain, moist/soft/warm tissues can be infected with either, this includes the mouth, anus, genitals, nose, eyes, and throat... Eyes is the most dangerous place to have herpes as it can spread to the brain via the optical nerve and cause some serious damage.)
*not_secure_link*www.aad.org/public/publications/pamphlets/viral_herpes_simplex.html
*not_secure_link*www.cdc.gov/STD/Herpes/the-facts/default.htm

Ghonnorhea (can actually get an infection in your throat)
*not_secure_link*www.cdc.gov/std/gonorrhea/stdfact-gonorrhea.htm

Clamydia
*not_secure_link*www.cdc.gov/std/Chlamydia/STDFact-Chlamydia.htm

Syphilis
*not_secure_link*www.cdc.gov/std/syphilis/STDFact-Syphilis.htm#spread

Less comonly: HIV, HPV (genital warts), Hepatitis, and intestinal parasites
For more information about oral sex and STDs please read this helpful guide from the Center for Disease control:
*not_secure_link*www.cdc.gov/Hiv/resources/factsheets/pdf/oralsex.pdf


One should note that these risks persist, even if no ejaculate (cum) is present.

I personally reccomend condoms and dental dams strongly in regards to all sex.

Personally I will only forego the use of latex barriers inside of long term exclusive relationships, and only after establishing a monthly testing schedule with all involved. (there's more to it than that, but that requires a longer explanation than is required by the OP's question)

 

All of this makes absolute sense in today's world, but I must say that it is one area that I am GLAD I am getting older.

Blowjobs with a condom? Brrrrrrrrrrrrrr.........

Thank heaven for all those years of sex without unnatural barriers. I feel sorry for younger people who, if they experience REAL sex at all, have ALL of these increased risks.

 

You shouldn't be taking advice from sex from porn movies... if thats which movies you were referring too.

 

I can just imagine that conversation after sex,

"But the girl in the movie said girls love getting ass fisted"

 

lmfao -- too funny

 

Umpire, this kind of quote makes me shiver. I don't know your age, but attitudes like that led to the initial HIV outbreak in the US in the 80's, and could be read as suggesting that sex with a condom is not *real* sex. You really shouldn't feel sorry for young people. Thanks to condoms they can now enjoy sex with a little more confidence, and avoid most of the risks that have been present and prevalent for decades.

Having had sex (and blowjobs) both with and without a condom in my life, the only real difference between using one and not using one for me is that if I use one I have to slow down to put one on. And that's not really a problem for me, as most of my partners have learned how to roll one on with their mouths. Actually, I genuinely prefer oral sex with a condom as opposed to without.

I personally suspect that the perceived difference most men feel when using a condom is mostly psychosomatic in nature.

 

I disagree. My wife and I are not big fans of condoms. We don't sleep around and we are both clean. There's nothing I love more than going bareback. Unfortunately she responds poorly to B.C. so it's a special treat to finish up w/out a condom on. (We're kinda bad at using condoms so about half the time it's pull out and pray.)

Having spoken of my love of bareback sex I would say that it is pretty stupid to be fucking w/out a condom unless you are in a committed relationship. Fantasy is where you have sex with 3 diffrent babes over the weekend and they all want you to bust a nut deep inside.

 

so...cody and i discussed this...and even though we had never heard of sex with a condom, we figured it must happen...why else would they have flavored condoms?


only other purpose for flavored condom: to add flavor during sex for oral after

but that raised a question: is it flavored on both sides???

 

nah it's good you said it... gave me a laugh

for the record, i bought a whisky flavoured condom out of curiosity, put it straight in my mouth... didn't taste much like whisky. tasted the inside... tasted rank.

they are not usually flavoured on both sides haha

 

See, the thing is if you had taken a shot or two or three of whiskey beforehand, I don't think you would worry about the taste much.